To recap, this week is insanely busy with work, and I’m forced to choose between sleep and journaling. I’m going back through some old advice I should have heeded the first time.

Today’s portion cuts me to the quick everytime.  For all the work I’ve done, for all the practices I’ve endured to get ready for the big moment, I’m still afraid of one thing… failure. It stops me dead in my tracks all the time.

So many performers talk about stage fright.  Getting nervous before giving a speech.  Afraid to talk to the cute girl in the bar.  It’s all fear of failure.  And I suffer from it still. 

That’s why I’m posting the following.  I need to hear it.  Again.

Failure is your friend

Most people seem to have an innate fear of failure, but failure is really your best friend.

People who succeed also fail a great deal because they make a lot of attempts. The great baseball player Babe Ruth held the homerun record and the strikeout record at the same time. Those who have the most successes also have the most failures.

There is nothing wrong or shameful in failing. The only regret lies in never making the attempt. So don’t be afraid to experiment in your attempts to increase productivity. Sometimes the quickest way to find out if something will work is to jump right in and do it. You can always make adjustments along the way.

It’s the ready-fire-aim approach, and surprisingly, it works a lot better than the more common ready-aim-fire approach. The reason is that after you’ve “fired” once, you have some actual data with which to adjust your aim. Too many people get bogged down in planning and thinking and never get to the point of action. How many potentially great ideas have you passed up because you got stuck in the state of analysis paralysis (i.e. ready-aim-aim-aim-aim-aim…)?

I’ve tried a lot of crazy ideas that I thought might save me time, or get a foot in the door. Most of my own ideas were flops, but some of them worked. I gotta be willing to screw up again and again for the off chance I might stumble upon something that works.  Thomas Edison failed something like 10,000 times before he finally invented an electric bulb that would light up…. How’s that for dedication?

Understand that failure is
not the opposite of success

Failure is an essential part of success. Once you succeed, no one will remember your failures anyway.

Microsoft wasn’t Bill Gates’ and Paul Allen’s first business venture. Who remembers that their original Traf-o-Data business was a flop? 

If the word “failure” is anathema to you, then reframe it: You either succeed, or you have a learning experience.

Letting go of the fear of failure will serve you well. If you’re excited about achieving a particular goal, but you’re afraid you might not be able to pull it off, jump on it and do it anyway. Even if you fail in your attempt, you’ll learn something valuable and can make a better attempt next time.

I’m gonna read that again, because it’s hard to swallow sometimes.  Don’t believe me?  I wrote a whole song about it.  Check out “Out of my League.”

Tomorrow I want to take this one step further… the ACTION step.  So stay tuned.  Also, happy birthday to Landers, the hardest of the hardcore.  The most brutal of the brutes.  You may know her as Dakota Darts.  23 is a great year kid; live it up.

So this week is insanely busy with work, and I’m forced to choose between sleep and journaling.  It’s trying my patience and sapping my energy.  So I’m going back through some old advice I should have heeded the first time. 

For the longest time I’ve felt like I was spinning my wheels on this music thing, never getting anywhere. That is, until I found this advice from Steve. So do not pass go. Do not put a band together…yet. Do not play any shows until you first figure out step one:

The first step is to know exactly what you want.

In a Tae Kwon Do studio where I used to train, there’s a huge sign on the wall that says, “Your goal is to become a black belt.” This helps remind each student why s/he is going through such difficult training. When you work for yourself, it’s easy to spend a whole day at your desk and accomplish nothing of value. This almost always happens when you aren’t really clear about what it is you’re trying to do. In the moments when you regain your awareness, ask yourself, “What exactly is it that I’m trying to accomplish here?”

You must know your destination with as much clarity as possible. Make your goals specific, and put them in writing. Your goals must be so clear that it would be possible for a stranger to look at your situation objectively and give you an absolute “yes” or “no” response as to whether you’ve accomplished each goal or not.

You could also take this one step further and tell some people about your goals.  I might recommend going one step even further and declaring to the whole world your goal… Sound familiar?  347 days left…

If you cannot define your destination precisely, how will you know when you’ve arrived? The key period I’ve found useful for defining and working on specific goals is ninety days, or the length of one season. In that period of time, you can make dramatic and measurable changes if you set crystal clear goals.

Absolute clarity will give you the edge that will keep you on course. Just as an airplane on autopilot must make constant corrections to stay on course, you must periodically retarget your goals.

Reconnect with your clear, written goals by re-reading them every morning. Post them on your walls, especially your financial goals. Years ago (during the mid-90s), I went around my apartment putting up signs in every room that said “$5,000 / month.” That was my monthly business income goal at the time. Because I knew exactly what I wanted, I achieved that goal within a few weeks. I continued setting specific income goals, even amidst occasional setbacks, and I found this process very effective. It wasn’t just that it helped me focus on what I wanted — perhaps even more important is that it make it easy for me to disregard those things that weren’t on the path to my goal.

The universe is waiting on you, not the other way around, and it’s going to keep waiting until you finally make up your mind. Waiting for clarity is like being a sculptor staring at a piece of marble, waiting for the statue within to cast off the unneeded pieces. Do not wait for clarity to spontaneously materialize — grab a chisel and get busy! There’s a key difference between knowing your destination and knowing the path you will take to get there.

A typical commercial airplane is off course 90% the time, yet it almost always arrives at its destination because it knows exactly where it’s going and makes constant corrections along the way. You cannot know the exact path to your goal in advance. I believe that the real purpose of planning is simply so that you remain convinced that a possible path exists. We’ve all heard the statistic that 80% new businesses (and about 97% of musicians) fail in their first five years, but a far more interesting statistic is that nearly all of the businesses that succeeded did not do so in the original way they had intended. If you look at successful businesses that started with business plans, you will commonly find that their original plans failed miserably and that they only succeeded by trying something else.

Use single handling

Instead of using some elaborate organizing system, I stuck with very basic a pen-and-paper to do list. My only organizing tool was a notepad where I wrote down all my assignments and their deadlines. I didn’t worry about doing any advance scheduling or prioritizing. I would simply scan the list to select the most pressing item which fit the time I had available. Then I’d complete it, and cross it off the list. If I had a 10-hour term paper to write, I would do the whole thing at once instead of breaking it into smaller tasks. I’d usually do large projects on weekends. I’d go to the library in the morning, do the necessary research, and then go back to my dorm room and continue working until the final text was rolling off my printer.

If I needed to take a break, I would take a break. It didn’t matter how big the project was supposed to be or how many weeks the professor allowed for it. Once I began an assignment, I would stay with it until it was 100% complete and ready to be turned in. This simple practice saved me a significant amount of time. First, it allowed me to concentrate deeply on each assignment and to work very efficiently while I worked. A lot of time is lost in task switching because you have to re-load the context for each new task. Single handling minimizes time lost in task switching.

In fact, when possible I would batch up my assignments within a certain subject area and then do them all at once before switching subjects. So I’d do all my math homework in a row until it was all done. Then I’d do all my programming assignments. Then I’d do my general education homework. In this manner I would put my brain into math-mode, programming-mode, writing-mode, or art-mode and remain in that single mode for as long as possible.

Secondly, I believe this habit helped me remain relaxed and unstressed because my mind wasn’t cluttered with so many to-do items. It was always just one thing at a time. I could forget about anything that was outside the current context.

That was long, I know, but SO important for me to hear, cause I feel a little ADD trying to do so much at once.  Always jumping around from project to project and expecting everything to work. 

I’m gonna’ keep this thread going for a few days, ’cause there’s a lot that needs to be said.  Stay tuned for part 3 tomorrow, because it gets even better yo. 

Busy week.  I’m swamped with the day job, and it’s hard finding the time to write everyday.  I think now is as appropriate as ever to post this…

One of the biggest problems that I’m having right now is finding the TIME to practice, write music, record, perform, promote, while having a full-time job, taking care of the everyday stuff, being single, etc. But I recently got some great advice that’s too good to keep to myself.  I want you to hear this story from a guy named Steve and then come back and tell me you’re still too busy.  ‘Cause after reading it, I had no choice but to shut up and get to work. 

So here’s Steve’s story.  There’s a whole lot of good stuff here, so I gotta break it up into several days…

“Do It Now”

When going to college many years ago, I decided to challenge myself by setting a goal to see if I could graduate in only three semesters, taking the same classes that people would normally take over a four-year period. This article explains in detail all the time management techniques I used to successfully pull this off.

In order to accomplish this goal, I determined I’d have to take 30-40 units per semester, when the average student took 12-15 units. It became immediately obvious that I’d have to manage my time extremely well if I wanted to pull this off. I began reading everything I could find on time management and putting what I learned into practice.

I accomplished my goal by graduating with two Bachelor of Science degrees (computer science and mathematics) in just three semesters without attending summer school. I slept seven to eight hours a night, took care of my routine chores (shopping, cooking, etc), had a social life, and exercised for 30 minutes every morning. In my final semester, I even held a full time job (40 hours a week) as a game programmer and served as the Vice Chair of the local Association of Computing Machinery (ACM) chapter while taking 37 units of mostly senior-level computer science and math courses.

My classmates would add up all the hours they expected each task to take and concluded that my weeks must have consisted of about 250 hours. I graduated with a 3.9 GPA and also received a special award given to the top computer science student each year. One of my professors later told me that they had an easy time selecting the award recipient once it became clear to them what I was doing.

I wasn’t considered a gifted child, and this was the first time I had ever done anything like this. I didn’t have any personal mentors helping me, I didn’t know of anyone who’d done anything like this before, and I can’t recall a single person encouraging me to do it. In fact, most people were highly discouraging of the idea when I told them about it. This was simply something I decided to do for myself.

Most of the time I kept quiet about what I was doing, but if someone asked me how many units I was taking, I didn’t deny it. I was perhaps the only student at the university with a two-page class schedule, so it was easy to prove I was telling the truth if anyone pressed me, but rarely did I ever do so. I didn’t tell you this story to impress you but rather to make you curious as to how I did it. I pulled this off by applying time management concepts that most people simply didn’t know but that were readily available in books and audio programs at the time (1992-93).

The time management habits I learned in college have served me very well in building my business, so I want to share them with you in the hopes that you’ll find them equally valuable. They allowed me to shave years off my schooling while also giving me about $30,000 to start my business (all earned in my final semester as a game programmer, mostly from royalties)…

Not bad huh? So starting tomorrow, I’ll show you the best of what I’ve learned from Steve about mastering time management, so that you too can get a record deal (or whatever it is you want) faster than you ever thought possible…

P.S. If you want more info on Steve, check out his blog…